Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? Two words … “no limits”. The amount of times I have seen or read this, people who really don’t understand the difference between fantasy and reality. When going through play negotiation when asked what are they into / would they like the worst answers can also include: Whatever you want to do I don’t mind, I just want to submit and get used / […]Read More
Post Tagged with: "fantasy"
30 Days of Kink – Day 14
How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? Limits! Physical and mental … in fantasy you can do so much more then you may in reality. And of course you don’t have to worry about real life afterwards. Several people may want / need a severe caning but the marking that this can leave behind is something they […]Read More
30 Days of Kink – Day 6
Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. I wouldn’t say I have any “weird” fantasies, but that is more a reflection on what I consider weird. Because to me sexuality is such a broad spectrum of feelings, emotions and experiences I love to explore other people’s sexual turn on and ideas. There are a few that I haven’t experienced that I would like to. Definitely more outdoor play, a sub tied between two tree’s – arms […]Read More
Visiting Spring Fair? Make your fantasy a reality!
I’ve done it, spent five long days stuck inside the maze of halls that is the Spring Fair at the NEC, Birmingham. Walking from hall to hall, getting the shuttle bus around to the far side because its just so huge and paying over the odds for a crappy sandwich and cup of coffee. So if you are visiting the West Midlands to spend a week at the UK’s largest stationary and gift show, why […]Read More