I’ve had a bit of a period of radio silence lately. I didn’t feel too good over the summer, and then stress and anxiety ramped up for a period and needed to just take a break while I cleared my head. It wasn’t a planned break, but I just needed to step back and take time to decide what I wanted to do going forward. This is not work you can do if not fully […]
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New Dungeon for London Sessions
This week I visited an amazing new Dungeon that is perfect for those in London and surrounding areas looking to book a BDSM Dungeon session with myself. This is a private dungeon available for sessions, and is incredibly well equipped! How well? Well to give you an idea it as all the following items: Fetters Bondage Wheel Fetters Inversion Table Fetters Bondage Chair Fetters Bondage Table Fetters Sling Fetters Tall Cage Fetters Sleepsack with Shoulder […]
Read MoreSir Dave – Nocturne in Black and Blue
I was recently asked if I would sit for a portrait, in Leather and for a painting that reflected me and was a story shared through that medium. Of course I said here, and here is the finished piece: I love it! And I know the artist is incredibly proud of it, the way he has captured the leather is fantastic and the amount of detail is just incredible. This is much more then just […]
Read MoreKinky Instagram Hashtag Tool
You may have seen my Puppy Hood Visualiser on the site, which has proved popular in helping pups design their own looks! And you, hopefully, follow me over on Instagram. One of the things that is very important on Instagram is the use hashtags, but it gets quite boring writing out lists of hash tags each time. And you ideally want to be using a variety of hashtags for each post to add exposure to […]
Read MoreBack In the Dungeon … Refurb Complete!
June was a busy month for me, not least because I took the opportunity to redecorate the Dungeon! I’m really pleased with the new look, not a huge change, new flooring, some new painting, changing of storage and displays and a new Geardrobe full of kit to wear … for Sir and slaves! So if you are looking for a session call 07516 036 105 to get booked in! Here is a preview of some of […]
Read MoreNew Service: Slave for a Day
For those who wish to explore a longer session, or to have the opportunity to loose yourself in your sub headspace I have introduced ‘Slave for a Day’. This is a full days booking, usually starting around 10am and going on into the evening. Like all of my sessions there isn’t a set structure to the day, all will be discussed in advance of your visit on how you wish to use the day and […]
Read More30 Days of Kink: Day 21
Day 21: Favourite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) I don’t really read that much fiction (kink or not), I get too easily distracted. But I do love to read things to educate and extend my knowledge, and am building up quite a nice library of kink related books / magazines. Notable titles that I have enjoyed include (in no particular order): Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation History & Arts of the […]
Read MoreReview: SM Apartments Berlin
I’ve been looking back at an old blog and a few years ago I wrote a post about the SM Apartments, owned by SteelCollar, in Berlin. I thought it was worth sharing a slightly updated version of this post as some of you kinksters may be interested in it. I’m very lucky in that I have my own permanent dungeon space, but appreciate that most people don’t have that luxury. And so quite often look […]
Read More“Hurt Me Sir!”
I’ve said many times before that BDSM and time in the Dungeon doesn’t have to include pain, it isn’t what it is all about. But for some it really is … and when you find those true masochistic pain pigs oh the fun to be had! There are many different ways of exploring a subs need and desire for pain, suffering and torture – spanking, flogging, canes, tit clamps, candle wax, electro / eStim are […]
Read MoreAll about Bondage
There is something special about the loss of control and freedom, particularly when that loss is physical and restrictive. But bondage comes in many forms so it is important to explore which appeals to you. Mental Bondage In some ways, the hardest! No physical restraints, just mind over body. You are given an instruction to follow, a position to stay in and you must hold it for a given time or until told otherwise. Failure […]
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