Impact play – yes hitting someone! There are many different forms of impact play, and many of them will be covered in videos over the coming months, but this one is an introduction to some of my favourite paddles in the dungeon. One of the most interesting can be the humble riding crop, small impact area, but visually very nice with its long flexible handle. And that handle, of course, means excellent reach to a […]Read More
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I’ve said many times before that BDSM and time in the Dungeon doesn’t have to include pain, it isn’t what it is all about. But for some it really is … and when you find those true masochistic pain pigs oh the fun to be had! There are many different ways of exploring a subs need and desire for pain, suffering and torture – spanking, flogging, canes, tit clamps, candle wax, electro / eStim are […]Read More
The festive season is well and truly upon us now! But what to buy that boy / Sir / pup / pervert in your life? Here are some of my kinky Christmas present suggestions! Happy Kinkmas! Short Rubber Covered Cane (£6.99) Canes, oh the fun you can have with a simple cane and masochist! These short canes are great for using across the body, used gently a little reminder of who’s in charge or more […]Read More
Many years ago when I first visited Birmingham Bizarre Bazzar there was a leather straitjacket. But this wasn’t just some run of the mill straitjacket, this was an item of beauty! The quality of the leather, the finish, the craftsmanship of the design and build was amazing. And that is how I discovered Top To Bottom Leathers, a small British company specialising in bespoke quality leather bondage equipment and products. And they are now one […]Read More
What are your views on the ethics of kink? This question I, and it appears others, struggled with – in what context are they asking question. Kink in terms of a lifestyle choice and the general morality of kinky action, or the ethics by which we play? There are those who see sex as purely for the procreation of a species, they either don’t understand or believe it can be an activity that people can […]Read More
List your kinks. The list is very long! But an outline of primary interests would be (alphabetically so they can’t be assumed to be in any preference order: Ass play – Fucking is quite low on my interest list, doesn’t do much for me. But I love to play with a willing hole, from introducing it to the joys of ass play with just a finger or small dildo and vibrator through to huge toys, […]Read More