Bondage is about restriction, the loss of movement. There are so many options for including bondage within a scene or making it the focus of a session. Most BDSM play will involve some form of bondage, it may just be wearing a pair of handcuffs or it could be tied in a hog-tie position on the bondage board/floor.
Sometimes it may not involve any physical restrictions, you could just be instructed to place your hands on the wall, your feet a given distance apart and then told not to move. Nothing is physically stopping you – just the instruction of your Master.
Common bondage positions I may choose to use during a session are the hogtie (similar to that shown to the right), on your back legs, ankles and wrists tied together, hands raised above head and held on the wall (similar to St Andrew’s Cross position), or maybe strapped down to the Whipping Bench with 12 straps holding you down.
Heavy Bondage
Sessions can also take the form of heavier bondage equipment such as a leather straight jacket.
Heavy bondage combined with sensory deprivation can be a highly relaxing and powerful experience. Here is an idea of one such session you may wish to explore:
The Mr S Neoprene Sleepsack lies on the massage table waiting to encase you. Slide your feet all the way down, put your arms inside the internal sleeves and lie back. The sack is slowly zipped up from your feet right up to the neck which is then closed with two press studs.
As you get comfortable you lift your head to have a soft black lycra hood placed over your head, it has an integrated blindfold to begin the sensory deprivation experience. You put your hand back down, either on the table or resting on a small pillow for comfort. Now either industrial ear defenders are placed around your ears, or headphones – maybe playing white noise?
As you get comfortable the sleepsack is roped up from the feet upwards, pulling it in tighter and closer around you. Working all the way to the top you are now completely encased.
But what then? Left for half an hour, an hour? How about an estim butt plug or cock rings, a vibrator just resting on the tip of your cock?
Mummification
This is a very intense form of bondage, this is often done using a combination of pallet wrap and duct tape … your entire body is encased. I like to use Vet Wrap, which is a nonstick stretchy material that allows you to breath easily for full head coverage and doesn’t get too hot/sweaty. A sleepsack is easy to be removed from, you unzip it. The only way you can escape from a mummification scene is with a pair of scissors to cut you out!
Mummification can be a total body enclosure including your head! Naturally, the duct tape will pull out hairs and stick to the skin so first you are wrapped in a layer of pallet wrap, and the head muslin gauze. Slowly this is then covered in duct tape leaving the head exposed, or just the nose/mouth for breathing.
It is also possible to add some “fun” to this, vibrating cock rings, butt plugs, and flaps for access to the cock or nipples maybe.
Due to the intensity of this scene, it can only be done in longer bookings – 1.5 hours minimum.