Videos

Counting With Sir

You can view the video that goes with this post here. One of the biggest thrills for many in BDSM sessions and play is power exchange – the differentiation of the Dom and sub, the Superior and the inferior, the Master and the boy. There are many ways we do this – a collar, a Leathered Sir and naked slave, the language we use – Sir, Master, boy, slut, whore, faggot etc. I always enjoy […]

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Everybody is Welcome

View the video that goes with this post here. Over the recent weeks, I have received several messages and calls from people asking if I would be happy seeing them because they don’t feel they have the right look, body shape or size. Or that their fantasy is too “odd” or “unusual”. I’m Sir Dave and like to think of myself as a Professional Kink and Fetish Enabler. For me a really important part of […]

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Merry Christmas & Fuck 2020

View the video that goes with this post here. I just wanted to say a few words as we wave goodbye to the shitshow that has been 2020! If you click the image to the right you can watch my Christmas Message video. For many of us, it has been absolutely devastating for our businesses and the businesses we love. I have found it really quite tough not being able to work. Not able to […]

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Stretch Dildos Review

Quite a while ago I was in the Prowler Soho store in London and bought a good sized bright red dildo, with the intention of one day completing the set if I liked it. View the video to accompany this post. I loved it and wanted to get the rest but … they stopped selling them! Now I must make a shout out to the ProwlerRED team on twitter when I asked if they have […]

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Introduction to Safewords

Safe BDSM is sexy BDSM and for me safewords are a key to that. Click here or the image to view the video version of this blog post. I never play without a safeword and I want to explain more about that and why they are so important. I have a very simple safeword that I use in all of my sessions, and it is quite commonly used by others in the kink world, and […]

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New Video: Paddle Power

Impact play – yes hitting someone! There are many different forms of impact play, and many of them will be covered in videos over the coming months, but this one is an introduction to some of my favourite paddles in the dungeon. One of the most interesting can be the humble riding crop, small impact area, but visually very nice with its long flexible handle. And that handle, of course, means excellent reach to a […]

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