Fetish

Suspension

One of the great things about a my dungeon is that it has high ceilings … and high ceilings are good for hanging things from. Subs particularly! Many like the feeling of being ‘vulnerable’ – a real sense of loss of control, Sir could do whatever he wanted. And suspension play provides a very definite loss of control as you feel the ground beneath you stretches out of reach. It is very much the ultimate […]

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Visiting a Pro-Dom / Escort

Happy New Year and welcome to 2017! Many people start January with resolutions that last about a week, but some do use the new year as an opportunity / excuse to try new things. Or to think to yourself this year you are going to take that next step – whatever it may be. And that may be booking your first visit to an Escort / ProDom. So I thought I would start the year […]

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Kinky Christmas Present Ideas

The festive season is well and truly upon us now! But what to buy that boy / Sir / pup / pervert in your life? Here are some of my kinky Christmas present suggestions! Happy Kinkmas! Short Rubber Covered Cane (£6.99) Canes, oh the fun you can have with a simple cane and masochist! These short canes are great for using across the body, used gently a little reminder of who’s in charge or more […]

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Top to Bottom Leathers

Many years ago when I first visited Birmingham Bizarre Bazzar there was a leather straitjacket. But this wasn’t just some run of the mill straitjacket, this was an item of beauty! The quality of the leather, the finish, the craftsmanship of the design and build was amazing. And that is how I discovered Top To Bottom Leathers, a small British company specialising in bespoke quality leather bondage equipment and products. And they are now one […]

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Masters & Their Boys

There is such a powerful connection between a Sir and his boy / pub / slave. These are some of my favourite pictures that show this intense and amazing connection and relationship.

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30 Days of Kink – Day 13

Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? It’s all about my favourite sexual organ – the brain! Blow jobs and fucking can be fun … but kink play is so much more, and so much better!! It is the personal connection, the power, the intensity of it, also the gear and toys too!

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Manchester Pride 2016

Thankyou Manchester for not just a Big Weekend, but an amazing weekend! And thankyou to all my friends who were a part of it and made it so special. I last went to Manchester Pride a three or four years ago, and had quite a mixed experience of it. But was determined to make the best of it this year … it’s all in the planning. I have quite a love / hate relationship with […]

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30 Days of Kink – Day 11

What are your views on the ethics of kink? This question I, and it appears others, struggled with – in what context are they asking question. Kink in terms of a lifestyle choice and the general morality of kinky action, or the ethics by which we play? There are those who see sex as purely for the procreation of a species, they either don’t understand or believe it can be an activity that people can […]

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What do you want?

I’m a big Sci-Fi fan, and one of my favourite TV shows has been Babylon 5 for a long time. Followers of the show will probably recognise the title of this post as the question Mr Morden and his associates The Shadows asked. But a variation of this question is something that I ask all my clients, particularly those who wish to visit The Dungeon. Everyone who visits me has different interests, different desires, different […]

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