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New Horizontal Suspension

I love suspension! It’s so much fun – and the feeling of total helplessness for the sub is unlike any other. I am also very lucky to have a dungeon space that is nearly 3m floor to ceiling – so plenty of space to leave you hanging around. I’ve been able to offer various forms of suspension for a while now with wrist and foot suspension and also the Fetters Suspension Harness. So a vertical […]

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Design Your Pup!

Mr S Leather have led the way in innovation for those into Puppy play. They had the neoprene Woof! muzzle (which I happily own), and they had some leather and rubber pup hoods and then the developed the Neoprene Puppy hood which I would say has become one of the most popular hoods on the market! It is certainly the one I see around on Twitter and at events most. And it’s not surprising really, it […]

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Nasty Pig Cap & Leather Mask

Gear is about what you feel sexy wearing, and if you feel confident and comfortable wearing it then that will show through and you will look incredibly sexy. This Snout baseball cap from Nastypig (available from UK via Clone Zone) is a personal favourite! In fact you will usually see me wearing this rather then the traditional Leatherman Muir Cap. Don’t get me wrong I love the look of the classic Muir cap, but so far […]

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Be Body Positive – Every Body is the Perfect Body

After a visit to Benidorm I’ve been talking about writing this post. My intention is to continue the conversation that has taken place over the years on the attitude to the body beautiful in the fetish scene. In everyday life, newspapers, magazines, fashion shows, advertising there has been discussion on body image. I’m not sure the fetish community, one built on different sexual tastes fully acknowledges the issue. And we as members of that community […]

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Review: SM Apartments Berlin

I’ve been looking back at an old blog and a few years ago I wrote a post about the SM Apartments, owned by SteelCollar, in Berlin. I thought it was worth sharing a slightly updated version of this post as some of you kinksters may be interested in it. I’m very lucky in that I have my own permanent dungeon space, but appreciate that most people don’t have that luxury. And so quite often look […]

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Coming Soon – Fold Down Bondage Table

I am frequently asked by regular subs and slaves “What new gear have you got Sir!?” Never satisfied … always wanting new ways to be tormented. I have a shopping list of gear I want to get, never seem to make it to the end though, and this is currently at the top of the list – the Fetters Wall Table with Folding Legs! Though I am going to have some adjustments made to it to […]

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“Hurt Me Sir!”

I’ve said many times before that BDSM and time in the Dungeon doesn’t have to include pain, it isn’t what it is all about. But for some it really is … and when you find those true masochistic pain pigs oh the fun to be had! There are many different ways of exploring a subs need and desire for pain, suffering and torture – spanking, flogging, canes, tit clamps, candle wax, electro / eStim are […]

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All about Bondage

There is something special about the loss of control and freedom, particularly when that loss is physical and restrictive. But bondage comes in many forms so it is important to explore which appeals to you. Mental Bondage In some ways, the hardest! No physical restraints, just mind over body. You are given an instruction to follow, a position to stay in and you must hold it for a given time or until told otherwise. Failure […]

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Suspension

One of the great things about a my dungeon is that it has high ceilings … and high ceilings are good for hanging things from. Subs particularly! Many like the feeling of being ‘vulnerable’ – a real sense of loss of control, Sir could do whatever he wanted. And suspension play provides a very definite loss of control as you feel the ground beneath you stretches out of reach. It is very much the ultimate […]

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Visiting a Pro-Dom / Escort

Happy New Year and welcome to 2017! Many people start January with resolutions that last about a week, but some do use the new year as an opportunity / excuse to try new things. Or to think to yourself this year you are going to take that next step – whatever it may be. And that may be booking your first visit to an Escort / ProDom. So I thought I would start the year […]

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