I’ll admit it, I don’t go out too much to the kink / fetish scene in the UK. Sometimes if you spend too much time on Twitter and Instagram etc you can get the impression you are only a real kinkster if you go out on the scene loads. Nothing could be further from the truth! The gay fetish scene really doesn’t cater for all tastes, and unfortunately like most niche markets is very focused […]
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New Service: Slave for a Day
For those who wish to explore a longer session, or to have the opportunity to loose yourself in your sub headspace I have introduced ‘Slave for a Day’. This is a full days booking, usually starting around 10am and going on into the evening. Like all of my sessions there isn’t a set structure to the day, all will be discussed in advance of your visit on how you wish to use the day and […]
Read MoreNew Horizontal Suspension
I love suspension! It’s so much fun – and the feeling of total helplessness for the sub is unlike any other. I am also very lucky to have a dungeon space that is nearly 3m floor to ceiling – so plenty of space to leave you hanging around. I’ve been able to offer various forms of suspension for a while now with wrist and foot suspension and also the Fetters Suspension Harness. So a vertical […]
Read MoreDesign Your Pup!
Mr S Leather have led the way in innovation for those into Puppy play. They had the neoprene Woof! muzzle (which I happily own), and they had some leather and rubber pup hoods and then the developed the Neoprene Puppy hood which I would say has become one of the most popular hoods on the market! It is certainly the one I see around on Twitter and at events most. And it’s not surprising really, it […]
Read MoreNasty Pig Cap & Leather Mask
Gear is about what you feel sexy wearing, and if you feel confident and comfortable wearing it then that will show through and you will look incredibly sexy. This Snout baseball cap from Nastypig (available from UK via Clone Zone) is a personal favourite! In fact you will usually see me wearing this rather then the traditional Leatherman Muir Cap. Don’t get me wrong I love the look of the classic Muir cap, but so far […]
Read MoreBe Body Positive – Every Body is the Perfect Body
After a visit to Benidorm I’ve been talking about writing this post. My intention is to continue the conversation that has taken place over the years on the attitude to the body beautiful in the fetish scene. In everyday life, newspapers, magazines, fashion shows, advertising there has been discussion on body image. I’m not sure the fetish community, one built on different sexual tastes fully acknowledges the issue. And we as members of that community […]
Read MoreReview: SM Apartments Berlin
I’ve been looking back at an old blog and a few years ago I wrote a post about the SM Apartments, owned by SteelCollar, in Berlin. I thought it was worth sharing a slightly updated version of this post as some of you kinksters may be interested in it. I’m very lucky in that I have my own permanent dungeon space, but appreciate that most people don’t have that luxury. And so quite often look […]
Read MoreComing Soon – Fold Down Bondage Table
I am frequently asked by regular subs and slaves “What new gear have you got Sir!?” Never satisfied … always wanting new ways to be tormented. I have a shopping list of gear I want to get, never seem to make it to the end though, and this is currently at the top of the list – the Fetters Wall Table with Folding Legs! Though I am going to have some adjustments made to it to […]
Read More“Hurt Me Sir!”
I’ve said many times before that BDSM and time in the Dungeon doesn’t have to include pain, it isn’t what it is all about. But for some it really is … and when you find those true masochistic pain pigs oh the fun to be had! There are many different ways of exploring a subs need and desire for pain, suffering and torture – spanking, flogging, canes, tit clamps, candle wax, electro / eStim are […]
Read MoreAll about Bondage
There is something special about the loss of control and freedom, particularly when that loss is physical and restrictive. But bondage comes in many forms so it is important to explore which appeals to you. Mental Bondage In some ways, the hardest! No physical restraints, just mind over body. You are given an instruction to follow, a position to stay in and you must hold it for a given time or until told otherwise. Failure […]
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