Fetish

Show Your Pride

I recently opened a little online gift store, initially, it is just selling some mugs that I have designed, and some art/images on mugs that I have commissioned. I am planning on adding more gay, kink, fetish, and or BDSM-related products soon. Something I’ve wanted to offer for a while is chain collars … chain is easy to buy, but not in the lengths you want/need to for a collar and you need to cut […]

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Time for a Spanking

Spanking … something many naughty boys desire, lust after or require. And it’s something I find so much fun to do! I recently had the pleasure of the visit of a very naughty boy whose bum needed a lot of attention! An hour and half of spanking in fact. You can see it here halfway through the session, doesn’t it look amazing and warm! Red bottoms are always such a treat to look at. I […]

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Rubber, boots, suspension & miking

This is a picture from slaves visit a few months back, a very memorable and enjoyable time! A long time ago I saw a picture of another sub/slave in a similar position and always enjoyed the look of it, so when the opportunity came to recreate it I couldn’t say no. A combination of rubber, tit pegs, suspension and milking with the Venus milker. Perfect! Of course the trick is to keep them on edge […]

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It’s not all “Yes Sir!”

A lot of people assume that a session with me is all about the “yes Sir” – domination, Master / slave sub / Dom roleplay. Or it’s about pain when we talk about BDSM. It often is, but it doesn’t have to be! Whenever I am asked what I do I describe myself as a “Professional Fetish Escort”. Some may say Pro Dom but I find that is too specific. I love domination, I love […]

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Everybody is Welcome

View the video that goes with this post here. Over the recent weeks, I have received several messages and calls from people asking if I would be happy seeing them because they don’t feel they have the right look, body shape or size. Or that their fantasy is too “odd” or “unusual”. I’m Sir Dave and like to think of myself as a Professional Kink and Fetish Enabler. For me a really important part of […]

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Covid-19 Update

When the Covid-19 Coronavirus hit I knew it meant one thing for me – no kink and no sessions. And then the official lock down advice kicked in, faced with a completely unknown period of time before I could see any of my clients again I decided I needed to keep my own mental health at the forefront and so took a break from twitter, email and my work phone. I apologize if you have […]

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London Dates & Mastery at The Backstreet

I’m very excited to be attending Brew Hunter’s Mastery at The Backstreet in London, the UK’s only strict dress-code Leather Bar. If you are attending would be great to say hello – but introduce yourself as I have a terrible memory and won’t recognise most people I follow. Sessions Available 18th & 19th January in London I am also taking bookings for subs or slaves looking to serve in London. If you have always wanted […]

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Slave Protocols

I have some slaves who follow various protocols when they visit. Coming for a session starts off with getting into the right head-space. Leaving the trappings of everyday life behind and allowing yourself to let go and become the sub/slave your heart desires. For example, one dirty cock hungry slut who visits knows that as soon as the door opens he is to go to the dungeon. Once there change into something slutty showing off […]

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Folsom Street Fair 2019

This year I returned to Folsom! But not Berlin, which is what most people in the UK think of when I mention Folsom. I returned to the original San Francisco Folsom Street Fair, my 4th visit to this iconic event. The worlds largest leather/kink event attracting around 250,000 visitors (for reference that is ten times larger then Folsom Europe). I’ve never done Folsom East or Folsom Berlin so cannot compare the events, but I know […]

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From Suits to Skinhead (Part 1)

Not so long ago I had a repeat visitor for a Slave for A Day booking. But this was to be slightly different, to fulfil a fantasy from his younger days when he remembered seeing Skinheads. Their big boots, jeans, braces, Fred Perry shirts and the attitude that went with it. A city worker more used to shirts and ties then then boots and braces this was to be quite an impressive transformation. And it […]

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