Events

London Dates & Mastery at The Backstreet

I’m very excited to be attending Brew Hunter’s Mastery at The Backstreet in London, the UK’s only strict dress-code Leather Bar. If you are attending would be great to say hello – but introduce yourself as I have a terrible memory and won’t recognise most people I follow. Sessions Available 18th & 19th January in London I am also taking bookings for subs or slaves looking to serve in London. If you have always wanted […]

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Cocktails with Sir: Bourbon Baileys

This past Christmas I was passed a family recipe … homemade Baileys! I didn’t think it would work, but this stuff really does!! Being a Bourbon fan I have used some Makers Mark here in mine, the measures below do give quite a Bourbon flavour to it, so use Scotch or slightly less alcohol if preferred. I also use Emlea Single here as that has a slightly better shelf life than regular cream, but that […]

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KinksterApp – Should you sign up?

You may have heard about a new boy on the block … Kinkster App. Lots of people are getting excited about it, me for one. And lots of people are asking why do we need yet another bloody hook up app when we have Recon, Grindr, Scruff, FetLife, Twitter, Growlr, Grommr, Gaydar (is that still a thing?) and plenty other less well known or used sites. I thought rather then just sharing my signup code […]

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Event Review: Kinky Consent

For a long time I’ve been looking for a kinky fetishy bdsmy club night of pervery that is local. I will admit I’ve never been a big one for most clubs, the exception to the rule has always been Backstreet. Most gay fetish events don’t interest me because most just seem to be mostly a sex club with crap dress code. If that is your thing that’s fine, for me I want to socialise, be […]

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Something New

With January now firmly upon us, many start to think about what they want to do in the new year. So this year lets all try to do something new to expand our interests. Visit Somewhere New This year I plan on doing some new bars, clubs and events, how about you, why not try somewhere new. That could just be a visit to a new city, a new cafe or new bar or even […]

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Bar Review: Boltz Birmingham

I’ll admit it, I don’t go out too much to the kink / fetish scene in the UK. Sometimes if you spend too much time on Twitter and Instagram etc you can get the impression you are only a real kinkster if you go out on the scene loads. Nothing could be further from the truth! The gay fetish scene really doesn’t cater for all tastes, and unfortunately like most niche markets is very focused […]

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30 Days of Kink: Day 21

Day 21: Favourite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) I don’t really read that much fiction (kink or not), I get too easily distracted. But I do love to read things to educate and extend my knowledge, and am building up quite a nice library of kink related books / magazines. Notable titles that I have enjoyed include (in no particular order): Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation History & Arts of the […]

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Help Send The King To IML

For a long time now I’ve felt in a minority … a proud active Leatherman. But one for who the majority of the gay fetish “scene” in the UK hasn’t held much interest. I’ve always enjoyed my trips to Leather events and bars in the USA – CLAW (Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend) is a favourite event, and The Eagle in San Francisco a favourite bar. And one of the reasons I have always enjoyed them […]

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