Day 21: Favourite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction) I don’t really read that much fiction (kink or not), I get too easily distracted. But I do love to read things to educate and extend my knowledge, and am building up quite a nice library of kink related books / magazines. Notable titles that I have enjoyed include (in no particular order): Enough to Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation History & Arts of the […]
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30 Days of Kink: Day 20
Day 20: Talk about something within kink / BDSM that you’re curious about/don’t understand. One aspect of kink play that fascinates me that I don’t really understand or ‘get’ myself is that of age roleplay – adult babies, school boys / girls etc. It is just something I can’t relate to, and I don’t have the experience or knowledge to build a strong role play scenario. But that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in learning […]
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Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they? It most definitely has! It has opened up my social circle to include some of the most amazing people I the world, from across the world! I definitely feel my life has been very enriched by my interests in kink.
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Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they? Two words … “no limits”. The amount of times I have seen or read this, people who really don’t understand the difference between fantasy and reality. When going through play negotiation when asked what are they into / would they like the worst answers can also include: Whatever you want to do I don’t mind, I just want to submit and get used / […]
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Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up? We are deviants and perverts, but we are also regular people who enjoy a nice proper cup of tea.
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Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally? There is always going to be a stigma associated with BDSM / kink play or what some may refer to as minority / alternative sexual interests. I’ve been called a deviant before now … I see that as a compliment. People have preconceptions about sex and sexuality they don’t understand. And they can be very […]
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Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try. Temporary piercing / needle play.
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How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ? Limits! Physical and mental … in fantasy you can do so much more then you may in reality. And of course you don’t have to worry about real life afterwards. Several people may want / need a severe caning but the marking that this can leave behind is something they […]
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Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to? It’s all about my favourite sexual organ – the brain! Blow jobs and fucking can be fun … but kink play is so much more, and so much better!! It is the personal connection, the power, the intensity of it, also the gear and toys too!
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Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny. I’m sure we have all had scenes and moments that no matter how intense or horny something has just switched and its ended up in fits of giggles. I can’t think of any specific moments, but I have to admit I always find the pups a real source of amusement. They can just […]
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