Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
It’s all about my favourite sexual organ – the brain! Blow jobs and fucking can be fun … but kink play is so much more, and so much better!! It is the personal connection, the power, the intensity of it, also the gear and toys too!
For me I love getting geared up to get off, be that just a jock strap with trainers, through to full coverage rubber or leathers. Sometimes a Sir and his boy / slut / whore can be geared up but other times Clothed Male Naked Male (CMNM) is better to make the sub feel even more vulnerable.
Within kink / BDSM play there has to be trust, consent and commitment from all parties. It is something really quite special to experience. And that for me is where the real electricity and buzz comes from. Most of my best sexual experiences have happened when neither party has cum, that is what I love so much!