How did you discover you were kinky?
I’m really not sure, it’s always just been there as soon as I discovered sex. Even before then I was obsessed with leather gear – a biker going past in his leathers always drew my eye. Not the bike, or the speed … the look of the leathers.
As a teenager three films certainly helped confirm my interest … Preaching to the Perverted and Madonna’s Body of Evidence. There was a third film that I saw that was on TV late one night, I have no idea what it was called or who was in it. Just that involved a guy being handcuffed to a bed and other acts of bondage and kinky sex.
There was also an article in Loaded magazine describing a visit to an infamous, long closed, New York BDSM club. I read that during a work lunch break and knew that was a world I wanted to be a part of.
But earlier than that in my early teenage years I knew phrases bondage, BDSM, sadomasochism. I didn’t really fully understand what was involved, just that the idea of sex can be so much more than putting your dick in a hole really excited me!