Thankyou Manchester for not just a Big Weekend, but an amazing weekend! And thankyou to all my friends who were a part of it and made it so special. I last went to Manchester Pride a three or four years ago, and had quite a mixed experience of it. But was determined to make the best of it this year … it’s all in the planning. I have quite a love / hate relationship with […]
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Worlds Most Comfortable Butt Plug
This is a review of what is called “The Worlds Most Comfortable Butt Plug” made by the team across the pond at Mr S Leather in San Francisco, and available here in the UK from the team at Regulation Ltd in London. This isn’t a really new toy, its been around since 2005 (probably earlier), but hasn’t had the presence it deserves here in the UK. But before we get down to it (or it in) […]
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What are your views on the ethics of kink? This question I, and it appears others, struggled with – in what context are they asking question. Kink in terms of a lifestyle choice and the general morality of kinky action, or the ethics by which we play? There are those who see sex as purely for the procreation of a species, they either don’t understand or believe it can be an activity that people can […]
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I had the pleasure of a few hours fun with a rubber bondage fan recently.
Read More30 Days of Kink – Day 10
What are your hard limits? Bareback / unsafe sex – is a fuck really worth it? Get a condom that is the right size for your dick and go for it! Though I must admit I’m not a big fan of fucking, I kinda get bored after a while – though using a strap on to fuck I really enjoy! Partly because I get so much more control over the experience – what size and shape […]
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Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. This was a difficult one! I’m not a big music person, I have some old albums and random playlists I may put on. Music for me is usually what Radio 2 is playing as that is my default way of listening to it. But there is one music video I love, it has a loose kink link. The lead singer used to dance at The […]
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Post a kinky image you find erotic. Now you would think this would be one of the easier questions! But not really, there are so many that I love … my PC on the dungeon has a screensaver of my favourite photos that I save from tumblr and the internet that I really like. This folder in itself has over 1,200 pictures in it! And so I present here a selection of my favourite pictures for […]
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What’s your favourite toy? This is a really hard one to answer – it depends on what I’m doing! But there are some definite favourites that I will often come back to use, favourite floggers, restraints etc. I often find people who make amazing stuff and I want a full collection from them, floggers for example I have a set of 6 from Bare Leatherworks in Seattle (deer, elk, cow fullsize and midsize, buffalo and […]
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Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. I wouldn’t say I have any “weird” fantasies, but that is more a reflection on what I consider weird. Because to me sexuality is such a broad spectrum of feelings, emotions and experiences I love to explore other people’s sexual turn on and ideas. There are a few that I haven’t experienced that I would like to. Definitely more outdoor play, a sub tied between two tree’s – arms […]
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What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. I’m not sure! Though I can remember buying my very first bit of kinky gear, and of course it had to be leather. It was a plain leather collar from Expectations in London, in fact I still have it and it was the first picture I posted as part of my Collar photo series […]
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